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Mornings Are Not My Thing

August 8, 2013September 5, 2016 / Viv@Grief Happens / 11 Comments

Nothing turns me into a crazy lady quite like routine. We're going on just under a week of back-to-school bliss. And for the most part, it truly is fabulous. Piers started Kindergarten, and Wallace is in Pre-K at the SAME SCHOOL!!!! They are transitioning so well that I'm almost afraid to say it out loud. … Continue reading Mornings Are Not My Thing

This Sparked My Interest this Morning

July 18, 2013February 12, 2014 / Viv@Grief Happens / 2 Comments

More of my thoughts on this later. I'd love to hear yours. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lyz-lenz/how-to-raise-a-kid-who-isnt-whiny-and-annoying_b_3248085.html

Back to Life; Back to Reality

July 16, 2013July 16, 2013 / Viv@Grief Happens / 8 Comments

The kids and I got in Sunday from a TEN day vacation.  It was all kinds of fabulous.We began last weekend camping with Gil and six other couples in the mountains.  Then the boys and I stayed with our friends, Ani, Zip, and their girls for the week.  They welcomed us into their home that … Continue reading Back to Life; Back to Reality

Summer Update

June 22, 2013June 22, 2013 / Viv@Grief Happens / 2 Comments

Summer has been busy!  I've been doing better living in the moment than recording it, which seems to be a bit of a problem for me as a writer.  I'm also adjusting to being with my children ALL day.  I didn't think I had much time when they were in preschool for three hours, but … Continue reading Summer Update

Why Do I Let Her Get to Me? Part 1

May 27, 2013May 27, 2013 / Viv@Grief Happens / 4 Comments

I'm thirty-seven years old and my crazy mother still screws with my head. Her most recent antics are affecting me in unimaginable ways and I have no idea how to shake her off of me. I need to do something because I'm slipping into the darkest depression I've experienced in years, perhaps ever. I know … Continue reading Why Do I Let Her Get to Me? Part 1

For the Love! Why Can’t I Just Eat?

May 5, 2013May 5, 2013 / Viv@Grief Happens / 18 Comments

So I haven't blogged in over a month, and I woke up this morning with an unquenchable urge to pour my heart out to the internet.  Actually, I don't think this is so much the case but rather my head is all over the place, and writing is a healthy way to center myself. Let's … Continue reading For the Love! Why Can’t I Just Eat?

I Need a Vacation

May 5, 2013September 5, 2016 / Viv@Grief Happens / 8 Comments

I found out on Thursday morning that my closest friend is moving. I'm beyond upset. Ani and her husband, Zip, have been our best friends for the last four years. They have two girls who are like my own children; Zip and my husband, Gil, play together in a band, and I really don't know … Continue reading I Need a Vacation

Marriage is a Lot of Work

February 9, 2013December 8, 2014 / Viv@Grief Happens / 16 Comments

After much pondering, going back and forth about the destiny of my marriage, I recommitted myself and chose to stay married to Gil and work out our problems. I didn't do so flippantly. I spent hours in therapy, prayed, meditated, yelled and screamed, cried, spoke with people I respect -- both married, single, and divorced. … Continue reading Marriage is a Lot of Work

I’m Allergic

November 17, 2012March 10, 2017 / Viv@Grief Happens / 1 Comment

This is a conversation I had with Wallace, my three-year-old, as we were driving to school yesterday. We had to be there early so I could rush to my doctor's appointment at 8:45, so the boys were eating their breakfast in route. Me: "Wallace, did you finish your sandwich already?" Wallace: "No, I gave to … Continue reading I’m Allergic

Strattera Update — Days 7-10

November 8, 2012November 18, 2012 / Viv@Grief Happens / 2 Comments

Day 7-10: Strattera I've been on 40mg all week, and I feel like shit. Is it the medication? I honestly have no idea, but I suspect that it's circumstantial. I'm on week five of Gil traveling. I don't miss him, but I do miss having another adult who parents our children -- not that he's … Continue reading Strattera Update — Days 7-10

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